Author: Aisha Mustapha

  • Aisha Mustapha is a Medical Student who writes about women, culture and life. She loves books and meeting people and she is unapologetic about expressing herself.
TMWT Quick Read: Ramadhan, Women and Culinary Slavery
The Issue

TMWT Quick Read: Ramadhan, Women and Culinary Slavery

Does men’s worship supersede that of women? And Is cooking a feast a substitute for prayers? How does a person who has spent a large part of their day doing chores have reserved energy for the actual purpose of Ramadhan?

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TMWT Quick Read: Dismantling the Sexist Myth Around Love and Respect
The Tone Up

TMWT Quick Read: Dismantling the Sexist Myth Around Love and Respect

At the very root of this vague and incorrect notion that either Respect or Love should be served based on gender is sexism. Men are conditioned to suppress their human emotions, the need to be cared for, listened to -but to aspire to Hardness, violence, and toxicity.

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Why I Stopped Arguing with Non-Muslims
The Tone Up

On the Repression of Muslim Women: Why I Stopped Arguing With Non-Muslims

Each time a non-Muslim says Islam is oppressive to women, I choose to channel my energy inwards, to observe the referenced situation, to see the unbiased truth/untruth of the matter. I refuse to counter with the clichés that are usually employed to patronize Muslim women. I choose to call for the much-needed change within the community.

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Patriarchal Standards of Beauty - The Muslim Women Times
The Tone Up

Rewriting a Culture Rooted in Patriarchal Standards of Feminine Beauty.

Each time you shame another woman because you believe she rates lower than you on the scale of male desirability, you expose your deep lack of self-love and self-esteem. And to achieve a gender-equal world, where women are respected and valued as humans and not objects, rhetorics that define our humanity based on patriarchal standards must end.

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